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Beware of THIS person in dating. 👆 #Dating #AttachmentStyles #Avoidant

You will find the right person sooner if you form the habit of saying “no” to the wrong people more quickly. Save this video as a reminder the next time you need it, and drop a ❤️ if you agree! P.S. If you’re ready to change your mindset to build the life that you want, go to MHRetreat.com for all details for my Weekend Retreat happening this October. Right now, I have a special Early Bird price that’s only available until March 28, so don’t wait!

What are your non-negotiable qualities in a partner? Tell me in the comments! 👇 Thank you, @Kristin Cavallari, for the beautiful conversation. ❤️

Ever had that sinking feeling that something in your relationship isn’t quite right—but you push it aside because everything seems too good to be true? We’ve all been there. And no film captures this better than Anora, this year’s Best Picture winner at the Academy Awards. If you’ve ever rushed into commitment, been swept away by grand gestures, or felt like you’re in a one-sided relationship, then you need to watch today’s video. I break down the 5 biggest red flags that signal your relationship could be headed for disaster—and how to spot them before it’s too late. Tap the link in my bio or head over to MatthewHussey.com/blog to start watching.

You may have an idea of your perfect partner—the person who feels like the missing piece you’ve been searching for. When you finally meet someone who appears to tick all your boxes, you tell yourself, “This is it—the search is over!”  But is that really what makes someone right for you? What if that person rejects you? In my new YouTube video, I show the TRUTH about compatibility in a relationship, and what really makes someone “The One,” so that you never obsess over the wrong person again.  Tap the link in my bio or head over to MatthewHussey.com/Blog to start watching!

So you like someone . . . but they’re really bad at texting. Or they ONLY want to text and you can’t get them to have a real conversation when you’re apart. Is there anything you can do to move things forward? This video breaks down a TikTok video where a woman gets increasingly frustrated with the “bare minimum” guy she’s dating as she reads through their texts. Then I share some different responses she could send to show more of her standards—to finally get out of texting limbo. Oh, and if YOU need help with your own texting situation, I created a free tool that will help you. Head to AskMH.com to ask your question and get my best answer right away. ❤️

This week’s new video is an extra special one: the first half of my interview with poet, meditator, speaker, and bestselling author @Yung Pueblo Books. We talk about specific signs that a relationship will last, the myth of “if it’s right, it will be easy,” how to stop toxic communication patterns, navigating the early stages of dating, and so much more.   No matter which stage of a relationship you’re in, this interview is a must-watch. I can’t wait to hear what you think! Tap the link in my bio or head over to MatthewHussey.com/blog to start watching! #yungpueblo

Do you always date your type? Tell me in the comments. P.S. Click the link in my bio to watch the full video. ❤️

Leave a ❤️ if you can relate, and share this with someone who needs to hear it today.

Thank you, @Yung Pueblo Books, for sharing your wisdom—I truly enjoyed our conversation. ❤️ If you haven’t watched the episode yet, tap the link in my bio or head over to my YouTube channel to check it out!#yungpueblo

We tell ourselves we have high standards—but is that actually true? Or are we just prioritizing the wrong things? And what if we meet someone who’s perfect on paper, but there’s no spark? Can chemistry slowly grow, or is it something we either feel instantly . . . or never will? For today’s new video, I sat down with @Kristin Cavallari on her "Let’s Be Honest" podcast to talk about chemistry vs. compatibility, one of the biggest mistakes people make in dating, and what actually matters when you’re looking for a lasting relationship. You can watch the video now at the link in my bio or by going to MatthewHussey.com/blog.

So, I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately . . . We all experience different seasons in life. Highs and lows—times when everything seems to be falling into place, and times when it feels like nothing is working. But whether it’s a good season or a tough one, there’s one thing that determines how we experience it more than anything else: our emotions. In the hard seasons, difficult emotions can make life feel even heavier. In the good seasons, lingering fear, self-doubt, or anxiety can rob us of the joy we SHOULD be feeling. The truth is, it’s not just our circumstances that shape our experience. It’s our patterns. So many of us feel stuck in patterns we can’t escape. Emotional highs and lows. Self-sabotage. A critical inner voice that constantly robs us of our confidence and makes us question if real change is even possible. Here’s what I want you to know: Your patterns are not a sign that you’re broken. They’re simply an adaptation to what you’ve been through. But when you change those patterns, you create results you’ve never had before. Change those patterns, and you change your future—no matter where your life has been heading until now. That’s exactly what we’ll be working on at the Weekend Retreat. Over two powerful days, we’re going to: Give you the tools to handle your emotions—so they work for you, not against you, no matter what season you’re in. Help you understand your patterns and how to change them—so you don’t keep repeating the same cycles. Create a foundation for an entirely new relationship with yourself—so your inner voice becomes your greatest ally, not your biggest critic. Because when you shift your internal world, everything shifts. Your confidence, your opportunities, your relationships, your future. If this speaks to you and you’re ready for a new season, let’s make it happen together. Go to MHRetreat.com to secure your ticket. Early bird pricing is available until March 28 before ticket prices go up.